Big Black Dick: The Stereotype

The lore of the BIG BLACK DICK (BBD) eas­i­ly stands up as the most wide­ly be­lieved and end­ur­ing sexu­al stereotype on the planet Earth. The ex­pec­ta­tion of the small Asian dick would be a safe bet for second place, but far and away the Black male as he comes to sexu­al matur­ity, is faced with the ex­pec­ta­tion that his penis will be larg­er than life. Is the legend real or is it fan­tasy? Is the rumor a bless­ing or a curse? In this ar­ticle we are fear­less­ly di­v­ing balls deep into the myt­hos.

• One part sleuth re­port, we’ll be di­gg­ing into the stereotype by re­ferenc­ing vari­ous stud­ies, to shed light and share use­ful statis­tics and ob­ser­va­tions. We’ll be look­ing at the im­pact of in­ter­net porn, society's ob­sess­ion with the penis in gener­al and the large Black penis in specific, along with many other fac­tors.

• One part self-help guide, for those Black males who might not have been born with the crazy-big dick ac­tion society ex­pects...

  (And remember... penis enlargement, erection supercharging, and all things male enhancement is our specialty, so, as always, for every man who is not satisfied with his size and\or performance, we’ve got this covered.)

  And still on the self-help topic, we'll even offer an­gles for guys who are hung but per­haps still feel in­jured by the stereotype. Yes, it's pos­sible.

• Most im­por­tant­ly, a big part of this ar­ticle will be a celeb­ra­tion of the male an­atomy, as is al­ways the case on al­lknight.com. This ar­ticle is de­dicated to men of Af­rican li­neage, the guys who pos­sess those myth­ical BBDs, and all those who adore them, as well as an­yone who is simp­ly curi­ous to see them in ac­tion. If you found this page by googl­ing the words "big black dick" there's a good chan­ce you weren't ex­pect­ing to find an in­tel­ligent ex­pose on the stereotype. Pro­bab­ly you were look­ing for the dongs... well, the boys here at al­lknight.com are al­ways happy to show you our dongs (laugh), and happy to help you power your own or your partner's, and we like to keep you think­ing too.

Going Balls Deep With Us, Into The Big Black Dick Stereotype...

If you’ve read our popular Penis Owner's Guides, then you’ll be familiar with our jour­nalis­tic style which al­ways aims for male im­prove­ment and en­han­ce­ment. As the first of our deep-dive ar­ticles into vari­ous sexu­al stereotypes and the ways in which men can eith­er find be­nefit in or shatt­er them (pre­dic­tab­ly, there will be similar write-ups aimed at the generaliza­tions society appl­ies to Asian males, White males, Latino males, et­cetera)... ul­timate­ly this ar­ticle, look­ing at the im­pact of the BBD equa­tion, is for every­one who wants to un­derstand a lit­tle bit more about human sexual­ity and race, about what life is like when you’re ex­pec­ted to have a big penis, what hap­pens when you do, what hap­pens when you don’t, and how you can eith­er ride your power like a wave or take your power back when you feel you’ve lost it. Yes, this read is for Black men of co­ur­se. Also, for every man who wants to un­derstand but doesn’t have a Black buddy they’re com­fort­able talk­ing dick with. As evi­den­ced throug­hout this site, the team here at al­lknight.com, “The Knight Squad”, is re­mar­kab­ly di­ver­se, so we can be your Black buddy (laugh). With strong re­presen­ta­tion ac­ross cul­tur­al de­mog­raphics and a mix of both straight and gay team­mates, we’ve been “talk­ing dick” and help­ing guys en­han­ce, en­lar­ge, en­erg­ize, cor­rect, and per­fect their penis game for years.

Do Black Men Have Big Penises?

First­ly, there are guys with big penises of every race, this in­cludes those who have been generalized as hav­ing small penises, Asian men for ex­am­ple. Second­ly there are Black guys with small penises, and that fact tends to hit them with doub­le the im­pact be­cause of their being such an ex­pec­ta­tion around what their size should be. Only once we’ve come to terms with the fact that there are no ab­solutes, can we look at the ques­tion more ob­jec­tive­ly.

Is there a ten­den­cy for Black males to be well-endowed? Pub­lic op­in­ion would cer­tain­ly tell us the an­sw­er is yes, but let’s dig a lit­tle de­ep­er. There are a few form­al penis size stud­ies that have been per­for­med throug­hout the years by vari­ous scien­tific or­ganiza­tions, most famous­ly the Kin­sey In­stitute, more re­cent­ly a study pub­lished in the Psyc­hology of Men and Mas­culin­ity journ­al, and so on. The cul­tur­al spread of par­ticipants in these and most stud­ies tends to NOT be very re­presen­tative, but still, it’s data. Ad­ditional­ly, there is the re­search per­for­med by con­dom com­pan­ies as well as the ob­ser­va­tions of penis en­lar­ge­ment, male gear, and male en­han­ce­ment focused com­pan­ies such as our own. Add to this the ob­ser­va­tions of doc­tors and nur­ses; those of per­sons work­ing in the porn in­dust­ry; and fin­al­ly, the ob­ser­va­tions of every­day peo­ple going about their norm­al routine of sexu­al ex­chan­ges.

Tak­ing all these sour­ces into con­sidera­tion, sim­ple logic would DI­CKtate (mis­spell­ing fully in­ten­ded) that with so many streams of input, the cen­tu­ries old legend of the en­orm­ous Black penis, if it weren’t at all true, would have faded into ob­scur­ity. If the trous­er snakes hid­ing in­side well-pressed slacks and baggy blue jeans, shift­ing in co­tton hoop shorts and ris­ing with the roost­ers to form a tent in the sheets—if the myriad cock re­ve­als of Black males all around the globe did not have a bet­t­er than, let’s say fifty-percent suc­cess rate in terms of li­v­ing up to some frac­tion of the ideal, it seems high­ly un­like­ly this rumor tur­ned legend would still be the most wide­ly be­lieved sexu­al stereotype today. Logic alone tells us there must be some truth to it. But how much?

With­out jump­ing the gun at all, we can say that it has been our ex­peri­ence work­ing with men in the male en­han­ce­ment and penis per­for­mance space for more than 14 years, re­gular­ly work­ing with male gear models, test­ers, team mem­b­ers and hav­ing seen co­untless naked dicks of every variety (White, Black, Latino, Asian, and every other raci­al flavor)—it has been our ex­peri­ence (and the ex­peri­ence of many trainees that we coach) that the rumor holds a measur­able de­gree of truth. BUT… and there’s al­ways a but isn’t there? But the mo­ment you use the word “every” or “all” in re­la­tion to a generaliza­tion about a cross-section of peo­ple, you’ve al­ready made the state­ment false. Every Black man has a dick, but not neces­sari­ly a big one. we can pro­m­ise you there are small-endowed men of Af­rican and other dark-skinned li­neage. And these men have an extra struggle com­pared to their small-endowed co­un­terparts of other raci­al backgrounds… be­cause, as the world sees it, they are sup­posed to be long on black in­ches.

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What's The Real Im­pact of The BBD \ BBC ex­pec­ta­tion?

That’s an in­terest­ing ques­tion isn’t it? As a guy, it might sound “cool” to walk around in a world where many—not all, but many—of the peo­ple you in­terac­ted with, would have an auto­matic per­cep­tion that you were hung. You could use this to your ad­vantage in some situa­tions, right? It would ob­vious­ly garn­er a cer­tain amount of at­ten­tion… and cer­tain­ly lead to you being ob­jec­tified more, even be­fore you ever un­zip­ped your fly. And if you were huge, as ex­pec­ted, that ob­jec­tifica­tion would run ram­pant. As men, we’re into our penises, we want them big, but think about it… might you get tired of poten­ti­al mates think­ing they’ve got your cock re­ve­al all figured out be­fore they even get in­side your pants or you in theirs? And if you hap­pened to only be average, might that un­fair­ly equate to a dis­ap­point­ing re­ve­al against such trumped-up ex­pec­ta­tions? If you were small­er than average, would­n’t that be even worse. If your rea­l­ity could­n’t live up to the ex­pec­ta­tion, might you feel di­minis­hed, as though you had mis­sed some de­live­ry of in­ches you were due? In this sec­tion, we in­ter­viewed sever­al of our trainees, Black males of co­ur­se, with an eye toward figur­ing out if the stereotype does more harm than good.

Ron
(Str8 Black Male - 8.5” x 6.75”)

Do I feel like the stereotype im­pacts me? You know, my first in­stinct is to say NO. I mean, I try not to let peo­ple’s per­cep­tions of me… when you don’t even know me… when you’ve never even seen my dick—I try not to let that non­sen­se land on my should­ers at all. The rea­l­ity though, is that even if you’re un­phased in your own mind, when the peo­ple around you think a cer­tain way, it has an im­pact. I’m say­ing, weird shit hap­pens to Black men around this “ex­pec­ta­tion” that we’re hung. I was work­ing con­struc­tion about a year ago, and the foreman takes me into his ramshackle of­fice one day, and just starts tell­ing me about him­self and about his wife. He’s tell­ing me per­son­al stuff all of a sudd­en, about how his cock is small, but he says that doesn’t both­er him. I’m like “okay, that’s good that you’re ad­justed.” What do you say when your boss, out of the blue, comes at you with this kind of stuff? He’s tell­ing me next that he likes to watch his wife get fuc­ked by well-endowed men… the bi­gg­er the bet­t­er. He likes to see the look on her face as a huge mem­b­er slides in­side her. And by this point my jaw had to be on the floor. I rea­lized, even be­fore he said it, that he had a pic­ture in his head al­ready. I stand six-four. I’m a light skin­ned black guy. He had his mind made up that I was swing­ing seri­ous cock and he wan­ted me to—“Be the bull,” he said next, “in a cuc­kold­ing scenario with him and his wife. Now, you guys tell me {Ron di­rects the ques­tion to us} shit like that doesn’t just happ­en to every­body. {Laugh­ing, we agree. His ex­peri­ence is speci­al. Not 100% uni­que. Ob­vious­ly, cuc­kolds have to find bulls some­place. But gett­ing this kind of offer at work is A) in­approp­riate, and B) de­finite­ly qualif­ies as some shit that doesn’t happ­en to every­one}.

I must have stood there look­ing stun­ned for 3 minutes. He starts tell­ing me his wife rea­l­ly en­joys Black men. And I’m think­ing to myself how fuck­ing weird the whole thing is, and that I could­n’t be­lieve it was hap­pen­ing, and that it re­presen­ted some stran­ge kind of sexu­al harass­ment. What if I said no? Would I be screwed out of a job be­cause I would­n’t screw this guy’s wife while he watched? In my head, I was like… peo­ple rea­l­ly do this kind of thing? He’s going on in the background while I’m warr­ing with these thoughts, tell­ing me how huge my penis must be, how he likes to watch his wife rake her man­icured nails over the curve of an­oth­er guy’s ass.

{So what did you do? We ask. And the ex­press­ion he gives is part em­bar­rass­ment and part mis­chief, with a hint of helpless­ness.} I did it. Not be­cause I was scared of los­ing that job. That’s what hap­pened an­yway, the writ­ing was al­ready on the wall. But I did it be­cause he showed me pic­tures of his fine-ass wife, lookin’ like Selma Hayek in Dusk Till Dawn. He had pic­tures of her with other guys, a mix of bulls, two white dudes, one Spanish, but most­ly Black guys. She was hot, like to scorch your eyeb­rows off your face. And I was single and horny as hell an­yway. And, shit, who doesn’t like a new ex­peri­ence… and I am hung (8.5” x 6.75”). I don’t attribute that to being Black, I just attribute it to being me. But there’s no doubt about why he singled me out. And ul­timate­ly, while the pussy was good, I did end up los­ing that job. Dude was too damn weird, cheer­ing me on while I’m bang­ing the shit out of his wife, talk­ing about how my ass moved. I fuc­ked her a few times ac­ross a co­u­ple of weeks, until he put his hands on my ass while I was on top of her... like to urge me on. I didn’t like that. I was like “Man if you touch my ass again, you’ll end up with eith­er a brok­en hand or a brok­en jaw.”

He tried to grin it off and I guess I tried to hump it off. I fin­is­hed up that night, creamed in­side his wife—of co­ur­se I wore a rub­ber—and left. After that I told him I would­n’t be com­ing back. And with­in two weeks “bud­get cuts” of some kind for­ced me to be let go. Whatev­er. I got an­oth­er job with less freaky peo­ple. And as a part­ing gift I got to keep these weird-ass mem­o­ries for mem­en­tos. But you see how it is, right? In my head the hung Black guy, Man­din­go thing doesn’t mean an­yth­ing to me. And still I got pul­led into this based on some­body else vib­ing off it all the way. So, yeah, it im­pacts me even if I don’t want it to.

Joe-Joe
(Str8 Black Male - 5.25” x 4.25”)

When did I rea­l­ize I was sup­posed to be hung be­cause of my skin color? This’ll maybe sound crazy or maybe you hear it a lot, but for me, honest­ly, it was in grade school. Like, be­fore your dick even rea­l­ly works for an­yth­ing but piss­ing, and way be­fore you have any idea what to do with it, boys are bragg­ing about or else cutt­ing each other down about the size of their dicks. It’s not like we were whipp­ing our wien­ers out and com­par­ing, but just talk­ing shit. And what would happ­en is kids would be like dis­s­ing each other, but if it cir­cled to me or this other kid, it would flip into “Yeah, but Joe-Joe and Craig got those dicks like an elep­hant’s snout.” Craig was the other Black kid in my—maybe it was fourth grade—class. There weren’t that many of us at this school, and I rea­lized after a while, that other boys (and I’d find out soon en­ough, girls too… basical­ly every­body) had this idea that being hung came with being Black. For a while this was cool, ‘cause I could al­ways take the wise cracks to big dick land and win. But, as the years pro­gres­sed, with me wait­ing for this big donkey-dong to sprout bet­ween my legs that never did, it star­ted to feel like I got short-changed.

By the time I was in junior high, and de­finite­ly sen­ior high, I fully un­derstood the stereotype. I was jac­kin’ off and watch­ing porn, and man that’s an eye-opener right? Every Black guy in porn is slin­gin' a boa con­stric­tor. And I un­derstood even then that those bros were pros, so maybe not the per­fect guys to be­nchmark against. Also, I was like, maybe I was—at around sixteen-years-old—still wait­ing on a growth spurt. And, man, I’m still wait­ing on that growth spurt {He laughs}. The thing is, I was still friends with Craig... and homeboy was hung. He was my same age, same color, lived on the same street so we should have been drink­ing the same pub­lic water {He laughs again}. But where I was small down there, he was huge. Body-wise, I was tall­er than him by a co­u­ple of in­ches, but his dick, at six in­ches soft and eight in­ches hard, more than trum­ped me being two in­ches tall­er. Yeah, by this age, hav­ing jac­ked off togeth­er to porn we had com­pared for real. And he was super cool about it, know­ing that I was sen­sitive about this. I mean, how could I not be, when my shit was under 5” and his was 8.” Some guys, even so-called friends, would have been as­sholes about this kind of thing, like rubb­ing it in your face and all. But Craig was like “Don’t sweat it, you’re shit is still grow­ing. Guys grow at dif­ferent rates.” It was like some­th­ing your dad would tell you, or your cool older broth­er. You know, talk­ing about this, I’m going to look Craig up. He was a good friend. We kind of fell out of con­tact later in life, but do you know he wasn’t even done grow­ing down there. He ended up close to 10” by the time we graduated. And you can bet word got around about Craig’s big one. He had all the girls. Word got around about my small one too—not from Craig, no he never told nobody—­but you bang one girl who turns around and says to you, “I was ex­pect­ing you to be a lot bi­gg­er,” and next thing they’re all giggl­ing about it. And there, pre­tty much, is the story of my adult life. They all—women of co­ur­se, but even, like, dudes you work with will say stuff to let you know—they ex­pect you to have the clas­sic Black dick (by clas­sic I mean big as Hell). For the lad­ies, it’s a let­down when you don’t. For the boys, you play along like you do, ‘cause what else would you say when some­one else is bragg­ing for you? Some­th­ing like: "Nah, man, I’m rea­l­ly just average and ac­tual­ly pre­tty small for a Black guy.” Ain’t nobody about to an­noun­ce that shit. The worst part though, isn’t even about an­ybody else. It’s the dis­ap­point­ment you feel in your­self like maybe if you had just eaten your Wheat­ies, you’d be bi­gg­er. Do I be­lieve the stereotype? Yeah, I’ve been around en­ough loc­k­er rooms now, quiz­zed en­ough friends, and watched en­ough porn to say I be­lieve it’s true a lot of the time. It wasn’t true for me though. It’s not true for every Black guy. Full grown now I’m only 5 and a quart­er in­ches fully hard. Like I said ear­li­er, I’m still wait­ing on that growth spurt. In fact, that’s why I’m hook­ing up with you cats, get­tin’ myself a penis coach. I figure what the good Lord didn’t give maybe I can shape with my own hand and a lit­tle guidan­ce.

Con­clus­ions: While it’s too early to draw a full con­clus­ion about the harmful­ness Vs. helpful­ness of the BBD myt­hos in modern times, just from the ex­peri­ences re­lated to us by Ron and Joe-Joe (Ron, who is clas­sical­ly well-endowed; and Joe-Joe, who falls on the small­er side of average based on general­ly ac­cepted statis­tics) we can see that Black men are im­pac­ted by the ex­pec­ta­tion that they will be hung wheth­er they are hung (like Ron) or not (like Joe-Joe). Be­cause the stereotype is heavi­ly im­prin­ted on the soci­al con­scious­ness, they are im­pac­ted wheth­er they end­or­se it or not.

Joe-Joe de­scribed feel­ing shortchan­ged, being average in gener­al and small for a Black guy. Both men are pur­su­ing bi­gg­er penises which is how they come to be trainees with us. For many rea­d­ers, Ron’s size of 8.5” by 6.75” will sound gigan­tic al­ready. We could make an as­sump­tion that he feels—even if the feel­ing is un­conscious—that for a Black male he should be even larg­er than he al­ready is. That could be the case; but we would pro­bab­ly be pro­ject­ing too much. In de­al­ing with men of all ethnocul­tur­al backgrounds here at al­lknight.com, we can pro­m­ise that being hung does not stop men (of any race) from want­ing to be even more hung. We’ve had start­ing trainees at close to ten in­ches who can’t wait to get to twel­ve or thir­te­en. It doesn’t take any kind of soci­al stig­ma to make a man who al­ready has a huge cock want to be even bi­gg­er. And this makes a per­fect segue into...

What is the Average Penis Size for A Black Man?

Con­ver­sa­tions about the lar­ge­ness of the Black penis al­ways land here, with the con­cept that there must be a dif­fer­ence in the statist­ical “average” size for males of Af­rican de­s­cent. It’s a popular no­tion that 8” dicks are the average for Black men, but this, we be­lieve, is an ex­ag­gera­tion. There is, in our op­in­ion, a dif­ferent “average” for Black guys, as there is a dif­ferent “average” for Asian males, but… a two inch jump over the clas­sic 6” mark­er (a mark­er that has been dropp­ing in re­cent stud­ies) would be an over­step. There is some very an­ec­dot­al sup­port for the 8” average, seen in the form of porn star op­in­ions (which we’ll be gett­ing too later), also an­ec­dotal­ly re­por­ted in a re­cent MSM (men seek­ing men) study that looked specifical­ly at sexu­al stereotypes ac­ross raci­al lines, which we’ll also dis­cuss a bit later.

It’s im­por­tant to note that no form­al scien­tific study cur­rent­ly on re­cord, in­clud­ing the most re­cent which found the gener­al average penis size to be 5.16” down from the clas­sic 6”, has ever had en­ough cul­tur­al di­vers­ity to pro­duce a statist­ical average for non-white males. For some time, stud­ies have fair­ly ag­reed that Black males are more often “show-ers.” In other words, their soft dicks hang noticeab­ly bi­gg­er. Less con­clusive­ly and even with not en­ough par­ticipa­tion by men of Af­rican de­s­cent, erec­tion stud­ies have general­ly in­dicated an average size rough­ly a quart­er of an inch to a half inch great­er in length for Black males. Based on a clas­sic 6” norm that would put the average for these men at 6.25” to 6.50.” Based on our ex­peri­ence this is an under-step. In­teres­ting­ly en­ough a study that com­pared straight men and gay men found rough­ly a half inch more length on average for gay guys. So, if you’re gay and Black you might be doub­le hung (laugh).

Our op­in­ion on this, based on our worldview and the myriad penises we’ve had ac­cess to for our tri­als, de­monstra­tions, pro­duct tests, etc.… places the average Black penis at an inch long­er (rough­ly 7”) over the gener­al popula­tion average penis size (rough­ly 6”). If you sub­scribe to the new stud­ies that find penis size to be a shrink­ing re­sour­ce where average is 5.16” then per­haps the average for Black males would be 6.16”. As dis­cus­sed in other ar­ticles, we do not sub­scribe to the new numb­ers, as our ex­peri­ence has found the clas­sic average of 6” for the gener­al popula­tion to be fair­ly re­presen­tative. Cer­tain­ly, it could be that the guys (of all ethnicit­ies) attrac­ted to our tests and demos are larg­er than the world average, but the rea­l­ity is that no one rea­l­ly knows what average is. This is an­oth­er one of those facts that we need to let soak in. In a world with 4 bi­ll­ion men, a study per­for­med by re­search­ers look­ing at 20,000 par­ticipants, while in­terest­ing and statis­tical­ly sig­nificant, does not have the re­quired volume to be an­yw­here close to being con­sidered ac­curate. When you com­bine the fact that these stud­ies don’t have approp­riate multi­cul­tur­al re­presen­ta­tion, the out­comes are that much fuz­zi­er. This is why we al­ways en­courage guys to com­bine what they are told (even by us for that matt­er) with what they have ex­perien­ced (their own per­son­al worldview).

Is Your Cock An Out­li­er?

One thing that’s in­terest­ing is that every­one thinks to look at male size from the average out, but there are other ways to look at size statis­tics. A more in­terest­ing (and per­haps more tell­ing) angle on the old cock measur­ing con­test is to look at it in terms of out­li­ers. If out of every twel­ve males six will be average size (rough­ly 5” to 7”), among these six men the 6” dick re­presents the true mid­dle, with 5” lean­ing small but still some shade of “average” and 7” lean­ing large but still some shade of “average.” As­sum­ing this, then 3 males will be small­er (4.9” or below) and 3 males will be larg­er (7.1” or above). The men who are out­side the centr­al six are all out­li­ers, eith­er small D out­li­ers or big D out­li­ers.

A few stud­ies look­ing at out­li­ers have in­dicated, and it has been our ex­peri­ence, that more Black men seem to be big D out­li­ers, and that they tend to fall furth­er into the out­li­er cat­ego­ry. Per­haps out of 12 Black males there are still 6 average dicks, but only 2 small out­li­ers and 4 large out­li­ers with the large out­li­ers land­ing farth­er out in the 8”, 9”, 10”, 11” and be­yond zones com­pared to oth­ers. So, based on this, while 8” dicks are not the average for Black men, you might still be more li­ke­ly, just ran­dom­ly pick­ing guys off the street, to select a Black guy with an out­li­er dick of eight or more in­ches. Not like you could­n’t select one with only a 4” penis, as they cer­tain­ly do exist. But look­ing at the out­li­er scenario might shed some light on the popular idea \ mis­con­cep­tion that the eight in­ch­er is the stan­dard de­ploy­ment to Black guys.

The Porn Per­spec­tive...

With the erup­tion of tube sites ac­ross the in­ter­net, every variety of porn is just a search term away these days. And in­deed, the pro­min­ence of Black in­ches on the porno scene—a long way from being new—is strong­er than ever. The terms “big black dick” and “big black cock” com­mand more than 215,000 com­bined searches per month on goog­le alone, not co­unt­ing searches on the many adult video sites. And in­deed, as Joe-Joe shared ear­li­er, a re­view of brown dicks in flesh flicks—if that’s your only frame of re­feren­ce—will quick­ly have you con­vin­ced that 8” dicks are in­deed the stan­dard de­ploy­ment for Black guys, with 11- and 12-inch dicks being fair­ly com­mon as well. The thing you must re­memb­er about porn, howev­er, is that it’s all about sell­ing fan­tas­ies, fetis­hes, and yes, stereotypes. The guys are real, they are not im­agina­ry (laugh). Their dicks are real too… but re­memb­er our talk about cock size out­li­ers, and the high­er numb­er of Black males who may be large dick out­li­ers. Gett­ing into porn (sex work) is a very popular line of work these days. Serious­ly, who doesn’t see the lore of payc­hecks for fuck­ing? Of co­ur­se, not every­one wants to be a porn star, but the driv­ing con­cept of gett­ing paid to do some­th­ing you like A LOT, while work­ing out your ex­hibition­ist kinks on camera is easy to un­derstand. So, porn, which loves big male ap­pendages, be­comes a natur­al mag­net for out­li­er cocks of every race (kind of like out­law cocks only bi­gg­er). In form­al porn, for the most part, and cer­tain­ly for Black male per­form­ers, 8 in­ches of penis is what it takes to be con­sidered big. There are some 7” studs out there, usual­ly with small­er an­atom­ical builds that pre­sent their end­ow­ment very well. Howev­er, in the XXX uni­ver­se, 8 in­ches is in many ways entry level.

You might say... what about the “re­gular” Black guys just up­load­ing their phone videos to their favorite tube site. They’re not porn stars but they all seem to be big bet­ween the legs too. Both in form­al porn and amateur do it your­self porn, we are in an age of male en­han­ce­ment. We could go down a list of adult film ac­tors ex­amin­ing penises and fin­d­ing the signs of penis stretch­ing and penis han­g­ing, the very philoso­phies we teach. Right now, we have quite a few trainees, ac­tive­ly using our gear and tech­niques, who want to be tomor­row’s porn stars. Just be­cause you see a big dick, doesn’t mean the guy was born that way. These days, many big ones are made eith­er by train­ing or by sur­ge­ry. Also, be­cause of the stig­ma as­sociated, most small-endowed Black guys are not going to be rac­ing to up­load their nude jack-off or sex videos.

An MSM (Men Seek­ing Men) Gay Study of Sexu­al Stereotypes...

Re­cent­ly, there was a very in­terest­ing for­malized study of rough­ly 120 gay men from the same four raci­al backgrounds that our stereotype ar­ticles are co­ver­ing: Black, Latino, White, and Asian. The study looked at how sexu­al ex­pec­ta­tions like the “Big Black Dick” im­pac­ted the hookup pat­terns of men seek­ing sex from other men in on-line chat rooms. It’s be­yond the scope of this ar­ticle to go into the fin­d­ings com­plete­ly, howev­er, in terms of which groups be­lieved and\or had per­sonal­ly found the legend of the well-endowed Black male to be true, the an­sw­er is all of them. With­in the rough­ly 30 men per group, en­ough Black, Latino, White, and Asian men had found the rumor of the BBD to be true, that the an­sw­er was a solid yes for each of the cul­tur­al slices. Other sexu­al stereotypes of Black males in­cluded that they are more rhy­thmic in bed (hav­ing more mo­tion in their ocean) an ex­pec­ta­tion shared with Latinos, as well as that they con­vey a cer­tain macho-aggressive en­er­gy... just to name a few.

Ob­vious­ly 120 par­ticipants are not en­ough to prove ac­cura­cy, but like so many other stud­ies it is en­ough to in­dicate a de­gree of sig­nifican­ce. Ad­ditional­ly, un­like so many other stud­ies, this one did have an even spread of cul­tur­al re­presen­ta­tion bet­ween the four groups being dis­cus­sed. Last­ly, when you over­lay the per­son­al im­por­tance of the penis to men in gener­al with the un­derstand­ing that comes from hav­ing a roman­tic and sexu­al in­terest in other peo­ple with penises, gay men em­er­ge as a very know­ledge­able audi­ence to query on big D topics.

Sever­al quotes di­rect­ly from par­ticipants in this study are as fol­low…

“The myth of His­panics and Blacks hav­ing large dicks is usual­ly true” (Latino, 25, HIV-negative).

“Peo­ple look­ing at my on­line pro­file al­ways as­sume I have a big dick!” He added: “Like all the Black guys, you know, their dick size is like eight-and-a-half, pre­tty much, nine in­ches. Nine is even be­com­ing like the stan­dard size now” (Black, 29, HIV-negative).

Is It Rude to Talk About Your Friend’s BBD?

Well, guys playful­ly rib each other about all sorts of th­ings, and talk­ing smack (or hype) about each other’s cock size is kind of norm­al. BUT there are a few con­sidera­tions to be kept in mind.

• Are you rea­l­ly being play­ful, just fool­ing around, etc? Jok­ing around bet­ween men about the length and heft of our cocks is natur­al en­ough. But if you’re say­ing th­ings to your friend (of any race) that you know will both­er him, be­cause he has some kind of sen­sitiv­ity about his penis, it’s size, it’s func­tion­—if you know in ad­vance that it will upset him for real, then it’s not funny, not a joke, and in fact, you are not being a good friend. Joe-Joe made it a point to men­tion that Craig was a good friend be­cause, while he could have been a real “dick” about how much bi­gg­er his dick was than Joe-Joe’s, in­stead he simp­ly told his friend not to sweat it, sug­gest­ing that Joe-Joe was still young and grow­ing.

• Have you seen your buddy's BBD? Es­pecial­ly if you’re of a dif­ferent race, it may be your in­clina­tion to ex­pect your Black buddy to be big, and while there is en­ough evi­d­ence to sug­gest that there might be a good chan­ce that he will be, there is cer­tain­ly a chan­ce that he will not be. Even if you’re bragg­ing for him: “dude, I know you’re pack­ing,” or some­th­ing like that… even though he’ll play along, there’s no guaran­tee he’s big, or that you bring­ing up the sub­ject of how big he must be doesn’t both­er him. And even if you have seen his junk and—here’s a mind blower­—it looks plen­ty big en­ough to you, can you be sure that he feels the same way for him­self? The ex­pec­ta­tion for Black guys is steep, his view of what is “big” may be very dif­ferent from yours.

• (Again) Have you seen your buddy’s BBD? No, there’s no echo, this time we’re runn­ing the scenario from an­oth­er angle. Let’s say you are both Black and you meet and ex­ceed every ex­pec­ta­tion on cock size that society throws at you. While the in­clina­tion may be to think that he will have a com­mon ex­peri­ence, that does not have to be the case. If you haven’t ac­tual­ly seen what’s going on bet­ween his legs (and the loc­k­er room can only tell half the story) you can’t be fully sure. Sto­ries of your monst­er cock long stroke es­capades with an ex­pec­ta­tion that he’s got match­ing end­ow­ment be­hind his fly may ac­tual­ly both­er him, though he will li­ke­ly never ex­press it.

• Every guy rea­d­ing this, his cul­tur­al background being ir­relevant, pro­bab­ly wants a bi­gg­er dick. This is, after all, a male en­han­ce­ment site. So, it’s easy for us to un­derstand how, in modern times, from a male per­spec­tive, it can be hard to im­agine that talk­ing about an­ybody hav­ing a huge penis would be taken poor­ly or as being rude or rac­ist. Even when the clas­sic word­ing “big black dick” in­cludes a cal­lout to race, the fact that this cen­tu­ries old stereotype rises from a set of ob­ser­va­tions that—at least in the USA—were dis­tor­ted into a pro­pagan­da en­gine meant to paint the Black male as a sexu­al threat is al­most com­plete­ly for­gott­en now. It’s cer­tain­ly be­yond the scope of this ar­ticle to go into the topic of his­tor­ical in­jus­tice. Friends, we’re just here to help every dude get the most out of his dick (laugh). Howev­er, if your Black buddy should ever say you’re being a rac­ist be­cause you keep going on about the BBD thing, you should just stop, be­cause that rea­l­ly is the cen­tu­ries old truth about how the stereotype got star­ted.

How to Han­dle Your Big (or Not So Big) Black Dick?
AKA Shat­ter­ing The Ex­pec­ta­tion

So, here’s the self-help seg­ment we pro­mised at the be­ginn­ing. Though, you’ve un­doub­ted­ly re­cog­nized by now the help­ful bits sprinkled every­where lead­ing to this point. If you’re hung, fan­tastic! Sling that thing with en­er­gy and swagg­er. And if you’re not so hung, there’s plen­ty you can do about that… and still you should sling that thing with en­er­gy (maybe even a lit­tle more en­er­gy) and swagg­er. Whic­hev­er scenario you fit into, the fact you have to re­cogn­ize is that the only ex­pec­ta­tions you need to rise to and meet are your own.

For Hung Guys...

• Do you like being ob­jec­tified? Some guys do, and that’s total­ly okay. You’re a man with a big-ass penis and why the heck should­n’t that be fun? As a Black man cer­tain peo­ple will auto­matical­ly match you to being well-endowed, and honest­ly, if you like being ob­jec­tified and all the kinky situa­tions this can lead to (there are plen­ty more than just the ex­peri­ence Ron re­layed to us, ten-thousand pos­sibilit­ies at least), then ride the rumor for all it’s worth. The ador­ing crowd will cheer and worship when you drop your jeans and your power­house junk flops out. And no, you’re not a stereotype and you never will be. You’re a dude with a huge cock, play­ing up a stereotype be­cause it works for you, and that’s you rid­ing your power like a wave. And rid­ing much more while the bed spr­ings pop and the head­board thumps the wall. So enjoy it.

• Do we have time for one more quick per­spec­tive? Sure we do. Jameon, 28, straight, 9” x 6” {told us this…} I love my penis, I love being able to lay down the sex long dick style {He grins}. I mean it’s the only penis I got, so I dig it, but I don’t rea­l­ly like all the at­ten­tion in pub­lic washrooms, guys hawk-eyeing me all the time. It starts be­fore I even push down my gym shorts, guys ex­pect­ing, ‘cause I’m a mus­cular Black guy, that the monst­er is about to come out. And it makes me feel, some­times like a walk­ing stereotype. I don’t rea­l­ly like the fact that my size makes some guys feel in­timidated or whatev­er it makes them feel. Truly, I wish every­body could have a big dick. The world would be a hap­pi­er place. {He ends with this thought.}

  Well, we want every guy to be big too, that’s why we’ve made it our mis­s­ion to help guys get the most out of their in­ches by grow­ing their junk, by un­derstand­ing their junk, etc. The ad­vice we gave to Jameon is the same for all hung guys who at times may feel the same way he does. The “loc­k­er room ef­fect” hap­pens to just about every well-hung man. Yes, being Black might set the stage—the ex­pec­tation—before you even un­veil the meat. That said, it’s a fair­ly uni­vers­al ex­peri­ence for well-endowed men. A big penis ends up draw­ing the at­ten­tion of other guys as soon as it gets naked. Some of this is in­stinctu­al going back to the primitive human and the fact that evolu­tion gave us such large genitalia for primates and then made us walk up­right so our boy parts would be on dis­play. A very strong ar­gu­ment can be made that moth­er na­ture wan­ted us, and our poten­ti­al mates, to see and com­pare our cock sizes. Most of the loc­k­er room at­ten­tion will come from guys who, yes, wish they were larg­er. Most­ly it’s a kind of awkward ad­mira­tion, some­times laced with a lit­tle in­timida­tion. Now and then you’ll grab the at­ten­tion of a guy who finds your gener­ous size sexual­ly attrac­tive too. It’s all norm­al en­ough. At­ten­tion kind of comes as a bonus with the big sausage. As men­tioned above, you are not a stereotype. You are also not your penis... you’re a man with a big penis (ap­parent­ly the show-er type that gets a lot of at­ten­tion in pub­lic nude zones). It’s okay, lots of guys would love to be able to strut through a pub­lic show­er room or similar with con­fid­ence, with the know­ledge that they are one of the big boys. Wear it with style.

For Every End­ow­ment…

• Do you NOT like being ob­jec­tified? Re­gardless of if it’s your pal rav­ing about how your junk sw­ings in the loc­k­er room, or just sideways talk at the water­cool­er. Re­gardless of if you’re big, average, or small. The legend of the BBD is so per­vasive that it’s every­where. It’s often touted in com­edy, it’s in memes, it’s in our every­day con­ver­sa­tion. You can’t make it go away be­cause it’s part of the soci­al mindset, but the peo­ple who are close to you, friends and such, who you should be able to have open com­munica­tion with, can be re­calib­rated. I.E., in­stead of play­ing along, if some­th­ing both­ers you about how they are com­municat­ing with you, you could tell them to change-up the way they are speak­ing to you be­cause it doesn’t sit well. There is noth­ing wrong with sett­ing boun­da­ries, be those com­municative or any other kind. This can go a long way toward tak­ing back your power if you feel the soci­al mindset has sap­ped it.

For Not So Hung Guys…

• Rea­l­ly, for all men, these days, you don’t have to just settle for whatev­er end­ow­ment your genetics han­ded you. Pep­pered throug­hout this ar­ticle are info spots for sever­al fan­tastic penis en­lar­ge­ment pro­ducts, erec­tion en­han­ce­ment gear, big D pills… all that. This is a male en­han­ce­ment site with every­th­ing from gear to co­ach­ing ser­vices to get guys the size they crave. We won’t spend a lot of time here on this topic, but we’ll just say, if you’re small or small­er than you wish you were, or even big as hell and you just want to be bi­gg­er... maybe it’s time to do what your favorite porn star pro­bab­ly did a few years back and jump on the en­lar­ge­ment train.

• Okay, so you don’t have one of those fab­led Black monst­er cocks and you feel like your cock re­ve­als are forev­er doomed to be a dis­ap­point­ment. But wait, maybe you’re look­ing at this thing from a glass half empty per­spec­tive. In other words, maybe you’re look­ing at the world from a “I didn’t get one of those BBDs” angle, when you should be gaz­ing from a “every­body thinks I got a BBD.” In other words, fake it till you make it (laugh).

  In in­ter­net chat rooms, at the club, in bars, wherev­er… as it per­tains to the in­ter­sec­tion of your penis and race, there are only two kinds of poten­ti­al partn­ers you will run into. A) Those who ex­pect you to have a big dong be­cause of your ethnic­ity. And B) Those who don’t think first and foremost about penis size at all and who don’t at­tach sexu­al ex­pec­ta­tions to race. It’s some­times easy to for­get that not every­one sub­scribes to stereotypes.

  In the case of B) your poten­ti­al partn­er is not bring­ing any un­fair ex­pec­ta­tions about your cock re­ve­al. So, you’re good to go. In case of A) yes, they’ve got ex­pec­ta­tions, but you’ve al­ready got their full at­ten­tion. Don’t li­ng­er on the dis­robe, use sexu­al heat and in­tens­ity to get your clot­hes off and get to the rea­l­ly fun stuff. Don’t give them any cues that you feel small­er than you should be. Check this out… it could be your en­er­gy and not your penis at all, that’s been mak­ing your cock re­ve­als a dis­ap­point­ment. Sup­ple­ment the BBD with BDE—BIG DICK EN­ER­GY comes in very handy and can go a long way.

  If you’re bi­gg­er than 6” at least (and you know how to fuck (laugh)) there is a very good chan­ce your partn­er may be­lieve—­simp­ly be­cause they wan­ted the fan­tasy an­yway, and be­cause the brain is the bi­ggest sex organ—that they’ve been ban­ged by a much bi­gg­er bone than you ac­tual­ly pos­sess. And even if they do re­cogn­ize that you’re not ex­act­ly a porn star in size, if you laid down the sex right, they may well rea­l­ize that they don’t care about the BBD fan­tasy an­ymore.

  If you’re under 6” noth­ing rea­l­ly chan­ges about our ad­vice or your goal. It simp­ly be­comes more li­ke­ly that your partn­er will re­cogn­ize that you are small­er than their fan­tasy, but again, your goal is to lay it down so well that they don’t care.

• Know how to fuck rea­l­ly well (laugh). Be good with your mouth, and good with your en­tire body. Be ready with the awesome sex posi­tions and with those fancy swivel­ing hip-thrusts and power thrusts and all that. You’re not a stereotype and you don’t want or need to be. That said there are other sexu­al stereotypes about Black males be­sides the one re­gard­ing the size of their genit­als. If you’re de­al­ing with a partn­er who is look­ing for the BBD fan­tasy, they will also be hop­ing for and im­pres­sed by your sex being very rhy­thmic with a lot of move­ment, and when you bring a de­gree of in­tens­ity, etc. Sexu­al rhy­thm (pel­vic thrust­ing skill) and in­tens­ity (basical­ly we’re talk­ing about en­er­gy again) are th­ings you can learn if they don’t come natural­ly. These are th­ings our DVDs and co­ac­hes teach guys of every cul­tur­al background.

Final Thought

Cats out of the bag isn’t it… this was a sec­ret Penis Owner’s Guide, only in­stead of giv­ing guidan­ce re­gard­ing how to deal with hav­ing (or ob­tain­ing) a specific penis size, it’s been about de­al­ing with the ex­pec­ta­tions placed on your penis be­cause of a sexu­al stereotype. This was ar­ticle numb­er 1 of 4 in our deep dive into how men should deal with the sexu­al stereotypes as­cribed to then. We co­vered the BBD myt­hos first, of co­ur­se, be­cause it’s the bi­ggest (par­don the pun) of the sexu­al stereotypes. Ar­ticles as such, de­tail­ing the ex­pec­ta­tions (or per­haps non-expectations) that im­pact Latino males, White males, and Asian males, are on the way as well. So, if you en­joyed this, be on the lookout for the next one.

Did we an­sw­er the ques­tion of truth Vs. fic­tion as it per­tains to the stereotype? Cer­tain­ly, we looked at form­al stud­ies, per­son­al ex­peri­ences, our own ob­ser­va­tions, and you should ac­tive­ly in­ter­sect these with your own worldview. Most legends have a seed of truth and then grow from a weed into a be­anstalk. As men­tioned from the start, logic alone would sug­gest that from loc­k­er room ex­peri­ences to romps in the be­droom, roll­ing deep to the rhy­thm of creak­ing bed spr­ings with the thump­ing beat of a chal­lenged head­board knock­ing the nearest wall for a soundtrack—that there’s some­th­ing more than smoke and mir­rors to the legend of the well-endowed Black male. But no generaliza­tion is ever ab­solute, and rea­l­ly, wheth­er it’s true or false doesn’t even matt­er. Penis size is per­son­al, and re­cog­niz­ing this is the ul­timate claim to your power. Whatev­er is going on with other men of your ethnocul­tur­al background or any other background, does not chan­ge what’s going on with you.

We asked along the way, if the BBD stereotype did more harm than it does good, and this is the more re­levant ques­tion. Ul­timate­ly, while we have sur­e­ly shared a numb­er of ways that pre­con­ceived no­tions about end­ow­ment can be tur­ned to your ad­vantage, these clev­er approac­hes can pre­tty much be filed as mak­ing lemonade from lemons. Most stereotypes are not created for the ad­vance­ment of society. They are generaliza­tions that stick. As a re­sult of this "stic­ki­ness," we just have to deal with them. They are sneaky, in that, even when they sound positive, they have a ten­den­cy to lean negative. As we see it, the best rea­son to dis­cuss sexu­al stereotypes is not to de­ter­mine if they are true, but to re­mind our­selves that the only ex­pec­ta­tions that count are the ones we for­mulate for our­selves.

In con­clus­ion, we very much hope you en­joyed this read, and that we lived up to the ex­pec­ta­tion (pun in­ten­ded) that this ar­ticle would be use­ful and en­joy­able for guys (and their partn­ers for that matt­er) of every race. For all our Black rea­d­ers, this chapt­er was de­dicated to you; and we hope, if you’re hung, you’ll keep swing­ing it bad-ass style; and if you’re not so hung, we hope that some of the ad­vice, stats, etc., herein will help you to start swing­ing it bad-ass style right away in the near fu­ture. For every­one else rea­d­ing this, yeah, of co­ur­se we want you to be bad-ass when you fuck too (laugh)... you know this. And we also pro­mised at the out­set that, if you wan­ted to un­derstand more about the BBD legend, sexu­al stereotypes and race, but you didn’t have a Black buddy to talk dick with, that for the dura­tion of this ar­ticle we would bring you that per­spec­tive and talk dick with you. We feel fair­ly cer­tain that we’ve done that. As with all our write-ups, guides, etc., we like to keep it real, keep it fun, and keep it aimed at educa­tion and en­han­ce­ment. So we’ll close with this…

Every man should ac­tive­ly be look­ing, al­ways, to im­prove him­self. In­deed, every man can be bi­gg­er and bet­t­er tomor­row than he is today (and bet­t­er still the day after that), not to ful­fil any silly stereotype, but to ful­fil the pic­ture he holds in­side his own mind, the pic­ture of his best self.

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